the masculine urge to end online messages with "cheers" even though it's a thing i've never uttered in my life not even once.
i feel like if i start saying "cheers" it'll start some kind chain reaction where within six months i'll be wearing a utili-kilt and homebrewing and buying used belt sanders off of facebook marketplace.
which is fine! that kinda of guy is fine. i'm just not ready to commit to that -- which will all invariably happen, i'm certain of it.
i need to bring them into alignment and start saying "please find enclosed..." in face-to-face conversations.
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